future husband

I've learned over time that if you want things to come to pass you have to put them out there into the Universe so that the Universe knows what to send your way. This is what I'm looking for in him. The physical things aren't THAT important, but they're preferences.  He...
  • makes sure that I'm not walking next to the street when we walk down the street together
  • will make forts in the living room with me and watch movies from them
  • appreciate my quirks and silly antics
  • doesn't mind eating all the yellow and orange Skittles and Starbursts
  • loves books just as much or more than I do
  • wears black square frame glasses
  • will be a weirdo too. We'll both seem pretty normal in each other's eyes though
  • will be passionate about something. His job, music, art, me, children, movies. Something. And what I don't know about what he's passionate about he'll teach me.
  • will embark on fun adventures with me. Skateboarding, bike riding, roller derby, hiking, camping, where ever, what ever. 
  • will help me braid my hair at night before we go to bed.
  • will know how and when to make me laugh when I need it and just because.
  • will fight for us when things get rough. Every day won't be unicorns and rainbows.
  • will kiss me in the morning even if I have morning breath.  
  • will dance with me, even when there isn't any music playing. 
  • makes me feel like the most beautiful woman in the world.
  • will let me pick the movie.
  • accepts me for who I am, little idiosyncrasies and all.
  • pushes and encourages me.
  • respects me.
  • respects my food preferences and occasionally may make fun of them.
  • understands that we will both experience growth and may change.
  • knows when to put me before his friends.
  • has supple and kissable lips. 
  • will rock, paper, scissors me to decide who takes out the trash, but will still take out the trash when I lose.
  • knows that I want his time more than I want random gifts.
  • can make me laugh, but is even better at communicating with me.
  • won't promise/manipulate with acts of intimacy, we'll use acts of fun/nerd shit
  • supports my dreams
  • has dreams of his own
  • has a positive attitude
  • is honest and loyal, even if it means it might hurt my feelings.
  • will tell me I'm beautiful even when my hair is a mess and I have sleep in my eyes.
  • will make sure I have enough covers when we're sleeping.
  • will validate my feelings, even if they happen to be irrational. sometimes we just want to know someone is listening and that our feelings are valid.
  • will randomly stop in public and dance with me.
  • we'll be able to talk about EVERYTHING with each other - finances, feelings, farts, etc.
  • he will grab a sketch pad/book/coloring book and lay on the floor and create/read/color with me
  • if he has children with another woman he takes care of them and has an amicable relationship with their mother
  • shows me he loves me in a variety of ways.
  • treats me like a lady, opens doors, pumps gas, drives.
  • will rub my feet after a long day at work or for no reason at all.
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