not what this post was going to be about

This post is supposed to be about the 5K that I ran this past Saturday, but the pictures haven't been posted yet and what's a post about running around covered in color without some pictures?

Marj from Raising Roscoe posted a couple of questions from 50 Questions That Will Free Your Mind a couple of weeks ago and I had to stop over and see what the rest of the questions were. So here are my answers to the first 25. If you have to take a break while you're reading them that's cool. I won't judge, just make sure you come back and finish.

1. How old would you be if you didn’t know how old you are? mid to early 20's and that how old people think I am. I'm older though. 
2. Which is worse, failing or never trying? never trying, you're not failing if you at least try
3. If life is so short, why do we do so many things we don’t like and like so many things we don’t do? because sometimes you have to do things you don't like and we're weird and scared and want to do things but are afraid and it gets the best of us. we should just do things.
4. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? I don't feel like I say much and I totally tend to do a lot, so I don't think I'll have said more than I've done. BAM!
5. What is the one thing you’d most like to change about the world? Get rid of some of the negativity and the hate. It's pointless. We probably need some of it for balance and drive, but there is a lot of it that seems very useless.
6. If happiness was the national currency, what kind of work would make you rich? crafting, blogging, keeping a home.
7. Are you doing what you believe in, or are you settling for what you are doing? I'm working on doing what I believe. I've become a little content though and need to shake things up and get moving. Sooner rather than later even.
8. If the average human life span was 40 years, how would you live your life differently? I don't know. Would I have learned some things earlier on? It's hard to say. Sounds like a cop out answer, but really it is.
9. To what degree have you actually controlled the course your life has taken? Not a very large degree. I'm very much a go with the flow type. Things kinda just happen to me. I'm starting to take control of my life though. I realize now what I want and am doing things to make that happen.
10. Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things? I guess I'd say doing the right things, though I don't think I really worry about much. Like I mentioned previously I'm pretty much go with the flow.
11. You’re having lunch with three people you respect and admire.  They all start criticizing a close friend of yours, not knowing she is your friend.  The criticism is distasteful and unjustified. What do you do? Tell them that I wish they wouldn't talk about my friend like that in front of me.
12. If you could offer a newborn child only one piece of advice, what would it be? Stop crying, I'm trying to sleep.
13. Would you break the law to save a loved one? Depends on the situation. If they're doing illegal things that get them into trouble. Man...I don't know.
14. Have you ever seen insanity where you later saw creativity? Say what?
15. What’s something you know you do differently than most people? I don't know what everyone else is doing so I really can't say. I do sit on my toilet bow sideways when I'm at home though.
16. How come the things that make you happy don’t make everyone happy? Because everyone is different. Simple as that.
17. What one thing have you not done that you really want to do?  What’s holding you back?
Travel all over the world. I don't currently have the funds to do so, just you wait though.
18. Are you holding onto something you need to let go of? Probably so.
19. If you had to move to a state or country besides the one you currently live in, where would you move and why? Probably California. I liked it there when I lived there previously. I need a change of pace. I'd like to check out Austin too.
20. Do you push the elevator button more than once?  Do you really believe it makes the elevator faster? Sometimes. No. I usually press it more than once because it didn't light up the first time.
21. Would you rather be a worried genius or a joyful simpleton? Joyful simpleton. Life is easier when things are simple.
22. Why are you, you? Because I'm me.
23. Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend? I think so, better even.
24. Which is worse, when a good friend moves away, or losing touch with a good friend who lives right near you? Losing touch with a good friend who is local. Even though that friend has moved away at least you are still in touch and know what's going on in each others lives. And there is the possibility of getting together again.
25. What are you most grateful for? Waking up in the morning and seeing another day. If I didn't have at least that, nothing else would really matter.

If you plan to do these, please leave a link back to your post in my comments so I can see your answers. :)

a liebster award and let's talk about me...

...I mean it is MY blog. I thought today was a good day to share some random bits about me so that y'alls could get to know me a little bit better.

So this post was initially going to be about me, but then Melissa (hey that's my name too) from A Little Bolt of Life nominated me for a Liebster Award and I figured why not combine the two posts into one. Google translate says Liebster is German for favorite it can also mean sweetheart, darling or beloved. It's a shame that living in Germany for 6 years didn't teach me that. Any who here are the rules for the Liebster:

• Post 11 random things about yourself.
• Answer 11 questions the tagger has asked you, and give 11 questions to the people you’ve tagged.
• Choose 11 deserving bloggers and tag them in your post. (I'm a rebel and I'm only tagging 5!)
• Tell them you’ve tagged them.
•  No tag backs.

11 Random Things About Me:

1. If I break one nail, all of my nails have to get cut. I can't stand to have one short nail. It drives me nutty. NUTTY!
2. I like the challenge of giving up different food items for lengthy periods of time. I've given up beef, chocolate, candy, pork and soda for at least a month. Not all at once though. That would just be crazy.
3. I'm usually in the middle of reading 3 - 5 books at once. I can't read just one book at a time. I don't quite get bored with the story, but I just prefer to have more than one story going at a time. I don't know how I'm able to keep all the stories straight. I also like to read at bars.
4. I also like to crochet at bars. I'm not very social, though it does end up leading to people asking me what the heck I'm doing.
5. I like to snack on green beans, cold, from the can with salt and pepper. 
6. I never thought I'd have any tattoos on my arm past my elbow. Both of my front forearms have tattoos.
7. I like to name things. Herbert the Bat, Lucy the quilt (the first quilt I'm still in the process of making), Stella and Keiko (my arm tattoos), Scarface my old not smart phone. If I had a car or bike, they'd have names too.
8. I occasionally sport red eyebrows or red hair. I'm pretty quiet and easy going. I like the boldness of the red. And I mean like fire engine red.
9. I've never had a S'Mores. Sad isn't it and I LOVE chocolate. I hope to change that this fall. I'll do my best at least.
10. I'm very interested in geishas and plan to get a tattoo of one eventually. I don't see them as ladies of the night. I see them as skilled artisans. 
11. I taught myself to crochet about 14 years ago by reading a book. I wanted to make a blanket and hit the library.

Here are the answers to the questions that Melissa asked me:

1. What is your favorite board game? Probably Monopoly. I like having all the money. I own the Simpson's version. I haven't played in some time. I need to remedy that.
2. What book are you currently reading? Geek Love, Tell All, Tunnel People and What the Dog Saw?
3. Falling asleep at night, do you need absolute dark and silence? Or do you like a little light or the TV on? I usually fall asleep with the tv on sleep mode or music. I can fall asleep in dark and silence too though.
4. What is your go-to dinner when you've had a long day? Tortillas with beans and cheese or just cheese.
5. How many pairs of shoes do you own? (this can be a guesstimate) 20ish. More if you count all the pairs of flip flops I own. I don't really consider those shoes though.
6. Favorite soda? Vanilla Coke. I only get to drink it when I go to Qdoba, which isn't often.
7. If you got handed 5 million dollars tomorrow, what would be the first thing you would do with it? Put away enough to cover the taxes on it and then pay off my student loans and the loans my dad had taken out for my schooling and then any other debts he and I have.
8. Favorite form of exercise? I'm really digging running right now.
9. Where would you build your dream home? That's hard to say. I've lived quite a few nice places, but there are still a few more places I'd like to live. I couldn't make a decision until I've exhausted my options.
10. Are you a planner? Or a fly-by-the-seat-of-your-pants kinda girl? A little bit of both. When I travel I like to plan the things I'm going to do, especially if I'm traveling alone. But once I'm there and know my way around, I'll definitely do things by the seat of my pants. Some of the best times had are random, hey let's go do this.
11. What is your favorite sport to watch? I occasionally watch/listen to football. I understand most sports, but am not an avid fan of any of them.

And here are the 5 blogs I've nominated for this special award!

lalaLists

whyyyJen

BreWrites

Bolu by Rima 

The Misadventures of Mrs. Whiffo

Here are the 11 questions YOU get to answer! Enjoy!

1. What would you rather give up for an entire year: television or your driver's license?
2. What is your dream job? What are you doing to make that dream a reality?
3. Where is the furthest you've ever traveled?
4. If you could be an extra in any movie, which one would you choose and what would you be doing?
5. Dress and cardigan or jeans and a comfy tee?
6. What television show is your guilty pleasure?
7. What is the weirdest food combination you've ever eaten?
8. If you could go on an all expenses paid trip, where would you go? Why?
9. What's one thing you've always wanted to do, but you're too scared to do it?
10. Long road trips or quick flying through the skies?
11. Do you have any tattoos? If so, of what and where?

So do you think you know me a little bit better now? I hope so. You think I'm weird don't you. That's okay. I'm fine with that, people call me weird all the time.

Also, I felt like this post deserved a picture. It's from earlier this year when I had hair almost down to my butt. Now it's at my shoulders. :(