Thank you DW, I appreciate it. I don't know how you do it, but you do.
I've been stressed, way more than usual. Bam...everything all at once: school, bills, projects, men (minor, but there none the less) and just life. It's been so bad that I fall asleep and get a good 6+ hours and Iwake up every one or two hours, I wake up feeling like I never went to bed or I wake up with a sore neck and shoulders. Last night after a relaxing conversation with DW I slept for a little over three hours and woke up quite refreshed, the best sleep I've had in about a week.
An old HS buddy (who found me via MySpace) tells me that I'm thinking to strongly about everything and that I have a lot I want to accomplish and I don't know where in the world to start. And you know what...he's right. I live in my head and it's always going a million miles a minute. I spend hours sitting and trying to figure out what project to start/continue/finish. There is so much going on in my head and it's getting quite crowded. Then there are all the things I want to accomplish: second degree, bills paid off, business, etc., I'm a mess. No wonder I'm stressed. I have to get organized and prioritize all of it. But where do I start?
I almost feel like I've gotten to the point where I need someone to sit and tell me what I HAVE to do and that there will be major consequences if those things don't get done. It's as if I've reverted back to being a child. But I'm not, I'm an adult and I'm the one who is responsible for me and my actions. I need support and encouragement though. I often feel like I don't have it. Sometimes I need help too and well...I have a hard time asking for it. It's as if it defeats the purpose of being independent. But, I have an no problem accepting help when offered. I really just hate to be a burden. Crazy little hang ups.
DW told me that you wake up every morning to a new day and a new beginning. Today is a new beginning and today is the day to start getting organized and priortized.
Off to start my new day...
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